Creating space sounds beautiful in theory. In practice? It often requires immense courage. Because when you choose spaciousness, there’s a chance you might have to disappoint someone, decline an invitation, a collaboration, a request. You might decide to put down your phone, ignore your inbox and your to-do list for a little while, even when they feel urgent. Protecting space takes boundaries. And boundaries can feel like risk. Especially when you care deeply, when you’re mis

Choosing spaciousness in your business is not just a personal wellness move, it’s an act of resistance. We live in a world that pushes urgency, rewards constant visibility, and celebrates hustle. We’re taught that if we’re not doing something measurable every moment, we’re falling behind. In that context, creating space, to think, to feel, to rest, to connect, is radical. Because spaciousness is incompatible with the default culture. Spaciousness says:  Pause before you respo

Spaciousness doesn’t happen by accident. If we want to show up grounded, generous, and magnetic, we need to   intentionally create space   — and then actively protect it. I've already offered a few suggestions along the way throughout this series but I'd like to offer a slightly more comprehensive plan. We’ll start with the practical: 🔹 Practical Steps to Create Spaciousness Block time with a purpose.  Don’t just schedule “free time.” Decide what kind of spaciousness you’re

There’s a kind of spaciousness that isn’t about your calendar, it’s about your   presence. Compare these two scenarios: You can have an entire afternoon blocked off and still feel tense, distracted, and stuck. Or you can have a 20-minute window and drop into a state of clarity and calm that fuels real connection. This is the spaciousness that lives inside you, and it starts with how you relate to yourself. At its core,   spaciousness is an inner posture.   It’s the stance you

We often talk about spaciousness as something we need   for ourselves , to feel better, to avoid burnout, to move at a human pace. And all of that is true. But there's another layer we don’t talk about enough: Spaciousness is what allows us to create something uniquely human (vs. AI). Without space, we default to tactics, templates, and urgency. We create because we feel like we have to, not because we’re moved to share something meaningful. And when that happens, your market

It’s easy to think of spaciousness as something loose and unstructured, like an open afternoon or a spontaneous retreat. And yes, space can look like that. But when it comes to your day-to-day life as a business owner, the truth is: Spaciousness doesn’t happen on its own. It needs structure. If you want space to think, breathe, and create from a grounded place, you have to build it in. Not in a rigid or hyper-optimized way, but with loving intention. Without structure, space

When we say we want spaciousness in our business, it’s often framed as a future reward, something we get after we’ve "caught up," hit a revenue goal, or reached some imagined place of balance. But spaciousness doesn’t come   after   success. It’s a condition we need to create   now , if we want our work to be grounded, sustainable, and magnetic. Spaciousness is not passive. It’s not about waiting for life to ease up so we can finally take a breath. It’s something we must choo

Spaciousness doesn’t just change how you feel inside your business, it changes how people experience   you . When you create from a spacious state, when you are grounded, present, and generous, your energy becomes magnetic. Not in a hypey or performative way. But in the quiet, confident way that draws people in. Because they can   feel   the difference. They sense that you’re not trying to push something. You’re not trying to win them over. You’re simply showing up with somet

When entrepreneurs talk about why they started their business, the same dreams often come up: freedom, flexibility, the ability to make an impact, and to do meaningful work on their own terms. Sometimes they talk about earning more, working less, traveling more, or having time for their family. But   underneath all of these, at the root, is something quieter, deeper, and more universal : Spaciousness. We want space to breathe. Space to think. Space to live. We crave a life th

Spaciousness is not just a mindset for your marketing, it’s also what allows you to step fully into relationship. Into presence. Into the kind of connection where something meaningful can happen — not only with your clients, but with anyone you engage with. One of the ways this shows up most clearly is in how we   listen. Most of us, through no fault of our own, haven’t learned to truly, deeply listen. We listen in order to respond. We’re half in the conversation, half in our