The Courage to Protect Spaciousness
- Sophie Lechner
- 6 days ago
- 2 min read

Creating space sounds beautiful in theory. In practice? It often requires immense courage.
Because when you choose spaciousness, there’s a chance you might have to disappoint someone, decline an invitation, a collaboration, a request. You might decide to put down your phone, ignore your inbox and your to-do list for a little while, even when they feel urgent.
Protecting space takes boundaries. And boundaries can feel like risk.
Especially when you care deeply, when you’re mission-driven. and you’ve built your business on responsiveness, generosity, availability.
But this is important to remember: Spaciousness doesn’t survive without protection.
It’s hard to say no when the opportunity is shiny, or a client is waiting, or someone “just wants a quick chat.”
But when you overextend, you don’t just lose time, you lose your center.
So here’s a reframe:
Every “no” to something unaligned is a “yes” to your most magnetic, mission-aligned work.
You don’t have to disappear, or go silent, but you do need to be the guardian of your energy.
Try this:
Create a “minimum spaciousness” rule for your week, a boundary that stays no matter what
Practice saying: “That’s not aligned right now, but I appreciate you thinking of me.”
Revisit your vision regularly. When you remember why you’re doing this, it gets easier to protect what it requires.
The courage to protect space is a practice. And over time, it becomes part of your presence.
One your audience can feel.
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If this helped you see how spaciousness is something you need to protect in order to bring the best of yourself to your marketing and your clients, I explore these themes even further in my email newsletter.
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Post 8: Spaciousness Needs Structure
Post 5: Spaciousness as the Real Goal
Post 4: Spaciousness and Deep Listening
Post 2: Spaciousness as a Precondition
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